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Life Starts NOW...

- The Blog -

  

Today is the first day of

the rest of your life…

 

Let that sink in for a moment…

The rest of your life starts NOW. In this very moment. And you get to decide what you want that to look like. You don’t have to “just take whatever life throws at you”. It doesn’t matter what life has looked like for you up until this moment. You get to choose what you want your life to look like from this point forward. 

The insights I share in these blog posts are intended to inspire you to take your life off of "auto-pilot" and begin to live your life in a deliberate and intentional way.

Whether you have been divorced for some time now, or you are smack dab in the middle of navigating the early stages of the end of your marriage, or somewhere in between,  my desire is to allow you to feel seen, heard and supported every step of the way. 

Even when life seems hard, we can make choices that take us one step closer to a life we can get excited about.  

Let’s do this together…xo

Are you feeling lost and overwhelmed?

START HERE…

Each of the categories below will take you to a different collection of blog posts with insight on how to navigate separation and divorce, and beyond, based on the stage you find yourself in at this moment of your journey.

Choose the category that best describes where you are currently.

Deciding

At a crossroads in your relationship

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Healing

In the first 12 months of separation

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Rebuilding

BEYOND the first year of separation

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Stuck in Limbo (Part 1): Why Relationship Ambivalence is Hurting You—And How to Move Forward

If you're reading this, you may find yourself in a place where you're torn between staying in your marriage or leaving. 

It's that agonizing back-and-forth, the constant inner debate, that makes you feel like you're losing yourself and your peace. 

Maybe you’ve been asking yourself, "Should I stay...

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The Silent Marriage Killer: Losing Yourself in the Relationship

Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized yourself...?

You're not alone.

When people enter a relationship, especially a marriage, it’s easy to become so focused on the other person and the relationship itself that they lose sight of themselves.

It often starts with good intentions.

Y...

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How Life Coaching Helped Me Transform My Life—Inside and Out

"Change your thoughts, and you change your world." - Norman Vincent Peale

I didn't look for life coaching.  It found me.

When I first stumbled upon life coaching, I had no idea it would lead to one of the most profound transformations of my life.

I had never even heard of "life coaching" befo...

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Navigating Valentine's Day with Self-Love: A Personal Reflection

Valentine's Day – a day that often stirs a mix of emotions, especially for those of us in the realm of relationships and love. And if you know me, you know I love LOVE.  But I'm going to let you in on a secret – I've never been a big fan of Valentine's Day, whether I'm in a relationship or flying so...

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Meet My Friend, Procrastination

Allow me to introduce you to my friend PROCRASTINATION…

Procrastination wasn’t always my friend.  Although we go way back…like waaayyy back.  I think the first time I pulled an “all-nighter” to write a paper, from start to finish, that was due the next day, was probably University.  But I can recal...

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Don't Love Your Circumstances? Change Them.

Today is my birthday. I turn 51 today. 

I feel like the first half of my life was all about LEARNING and the second half will be all about LIVING.  All about IMPLEMENTING all the learning. And there is so much “implementing” I want to do! LOL

As I sit here on the front lawn of the Inn at Bay Fortu...

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Recognizing The Beauty In Everyday

I am treating myself to a couple of nights away at the Inn at Bay Fortune on Prince Edward Island for my birthday and what a beautiful spot it is! 

I was watching the sunset a short while ago and I was overwhelmed with emotion and how fortunate I am to be here. This feels like one of those places I...

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A Lesson Only Death Can Teach...

"The ONLY way to cheat death is to LIVE THE SH*T OUT OF YOUR LIFE..." 

It's taken me all week to find just the right words to write this post..

Last Saturday I was blessed to be present at the Celebration of Life of Brian Carty - an exceptional man who was taken from this world too soon. 

I say "...

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Being Deliberate About Creating The Life You Want

I just reread yesterday’s blog post.  

Why is being deliberate such a big deal and what does it have to do with life after separation and divorce?

Here’s what I know to be true…

Creating an amazing life doesn’t just happen with the flick of switch.  It’s a process.  One step at a time.  One delib...

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