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Life Starts NOW...

- The Blog -

  

Today is the first day of

the rest of your life…

 

Let that sink in for a moment…

The rest of your life starts NOW. In this very moment. And you get to decide what you want that to look like. You don’t have to “just take whatever life throws at you”. It doesn’t matter what life has looked like for you up until this moment. You get to choose what you want your life to look like from this point forward. 

The insights I share in these blog posts are intended to inspire you to take your life off of "auto-pilot" and begin to live your life in a deliberate and intentional way.

Whether you have been divorced for some time now, or you are smack dab in the middle of navigating the early stages of the end of your marriage, or somewhere in between,  my desire is to allow you to feel seen, heard and supported every step of the way. 

Even when life seems hard, we can make choices that take us one step closer to a life we can get excited about.  

Let’s do this together…xo

Are you feeling lost and overwhelmed?

START HERE…

Each of the categories below will take you to a different collection of blog posts with insight on how to navigate separation and divorce, and beyond, based on the stage you find yourself in at this moment of your journey.

Choose the category that best describes where you are currently.

Deciding

At a crossroads in your relationship

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Healing

In the first 12 months of separation

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Rebuilding

BEYOND the first year of separation

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Stuck in Limbo (Part 1): Why Relationship Ambivalence is Hurting You—And How to Move Forward

If you're reading this, you may find yourself in a place where you're torn between staying in your marriage or leaving. 

It's that agonizing back-and-forth, the constant inner debate, that makes you feel like you're losing yourself and your peace. 

Maybe you’ve been asking yourself, "Should I stay...

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The Silent Marriage Killer: Losing Yourself in the Relationship

Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized yourself...?

You're not alone.

When people enter a relationship, especially a marriage, it’s easy to become so focused on the other person and the relationship itself that they lose sight of themselves.

It often starts with good intentions.

Y...

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How Life Coaching Helped Me Transform My Life—Inside and Out

"Change your thoughts, and you change your world." - Norman Vincent Peale

I didn't look for life coaching.  It found me.

When I first stumbled upon life coaching, I had no idea it would lead to one of the most profound transformations of my life.

I had never even heard of "life coaching" befo...

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Shifting Focus: A Back-to-School Invitation to Rediscover Yourself

Ahhh, September...

There's something about this time of year that feels like "possibility" to me.

Maybe it's the fact that for nearly 20 years of my life, September brought newness with it.  New teachers, new classes, new notebooks.  Sometimes a new school.  It always felt like a clean slate to me...

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What I Would Say to a Friend Considering Ending Her Marriage

"I think my marriage is over..."

"I don't think I can do this anymore..."

When a close friend reaches out with something as heavy as the possibility of ending her marriage, my instinct is to hold space for her—to listen, to understand, and to offer guidance rooted in both love and honesty.

If my ...

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Your Life is Your Canvas: Are You Choosing to Create a Masterpiece?

Do you love your life?

Are you being intentional about creating a life that lights you up, at home and at work?

Are you being an example of what it means to create an extraordinary life for your children, or are you teaching them to settle for “good enough”?

These hard questions are the very ones...

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From Conflict to Harmony: The Transformative Power of Coaching

“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” – Jim Rohn

Is it just me or is life particularly hard to navigate right now?

Everywhere you turn people seem to have shorter fuses and sharper tongues.

Whether it's in line at the grocery store, in the drive-through getting ...

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Intentional Recharging: iPhones Need it, and So Do You

I see you.

Trying to be all things to all people.

A good mother, daughter, friend.

A good employee, manager or business owner.

And most days feeling like you’re failing at all of it.

Balancing work, parenting, and personal challenges leaves little room for self-care. This relentless pursuit of ...

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The Significance of Leaving a Legacy: A Tribute to Donald Sutherland

Today, we mourn the loss of a great Canadian, Donald Sutherland.

Sutherland's legacy is one of remarkable talent, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to his craft. His contributions to film and television have touched countless lives and will be remembered for generations.

His son, Kiefer Sut...

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Seizing the Day: A Reflection on Life and Loss

Death.

It's a thief in many ways.

And it's also a powerful reminder to us of how fragile life is.

Today, my sister Lourdis would have been celebrating her 65th birthday.  She passed away 2 days before her 61st birthday. 

The message I shared on Facebook at the time of her passing, comes up in my...

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A Return to Love: A Message for International Women's Day

As International Women's Day approaches, I felt called to share with you a quote that has been a beacon of light for me in my own journey of creating an extraordinary life after divorce.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is...

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February 29: A Day to Recalibrate Your Life and Dare to Dream Again

In my last blog post, I wrote about the Snow Moon and how it served as a reminder of to us of the profound cycles of renewal and growth that guide the natural world—even during the coldest, bleakest months of the year in the northern hemisphere. In a similar vein, I want to talk to you about Februar...

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