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Life Starts NOW...

- The Blog -

  

Today is the first day of

the rest of your life…

 

Let that sink in for a moment…

The rest of your life starts NOW. In this very moment. And you get to decide what you want that to look like. You don’t have to “just take whatever life throws at you”. It doesn’t matter what life has looked like for you up until this moment. You get to choose what you want your life to look like from this point forward. 

The insights I share in these blog posts are intended to inspire you to take your life off of "auto-pilot" and begin to live your life in a deliberate and intentional way.

Whether you have been divorced for some time now, or you are smack dab in the middle of navigating the early stages of the end of your marriage, or somewhere in between,  my desire is to allow you to feel seen, heard and supported every step of the way. 

Even when life seems hard, we can make choices that take us one step closer to a life we can get excited about.  

Let’s do this together…xo

Are you feeling lost and overwhelmed?

START HERE…

Each of the categories below will take you to a different collection of blog posts with insight on how to navigate separation and divorce, and beyond, based on the stage you find yourself in at this moment of your journey.

Choose the category that best describes where you are currently.

Deciding

At a crossroads in your relationship

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Healing

In the first 12 months of separation

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Rebuilding

BEYOND the first year of separation

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What to do When You’re the Only One Willing to Fight for Your Marriage

It’s heartbreaking to feel like you’re fighting for your marriage alone.

You’re not ready to give up—you love your spouse, and you believe there’s something worth saving.

But you’re also unsure if they’re willing to do the work.

If this is where you are right now, I want you to know two things:

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Stuck in Limbo (Part 2): Common Objections to Taking Action and How to Overcome Them

In the first part of this series, we explored how relationship ambivalence—being stuck between staying or leaving—can paralyze your life.

We also started unpacking some of the biggest reasons people stay in this painful limbo, like feeling that their spouse won’t participate or thinking they don’t ...

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"What Are You Really Afraid Of?" The Key to Transforming Your Relationship

We all know fear.

It’s that tight knot in your stomach, the voice in your head whispering doubts, the weight that keeps you from taking the next step.

Fear has a sneaky way of showing up in our lives, especially when we’re faced with big decisions about our relationships. It can make us second-gue...

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Divorce Doesn’t Have to Be a Battlefield: There is a Better Path Forward

Navigating divorce can feel like walking through a minefield.

For many, the process is filled with emotional turmoil, financial strain, and the daunting sense that every decision could have long-lasting consequences.

Because every decision does have long-lasting consequences.

As someone who has s...

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The Silent Marriage Killer: Losing Yourself in the Relationship

Have you ever looked in the mirror and not recognized yourself...?

You're not alone.

When people enter a relationship, especially a marriage, it’s easy to become so focused on the other person and the relationship itself that they lose sight of themselves.

It often starts with good intentions.

Y...

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How Life Coaching Helped Me Transform My Life—Inside and Out

"Change your thoughts, and you change your world." - Norman Vincent Peale

I didn't look for life coaching.  It found me.

When I first stumbled upon life coaching, I had no idea it would lead to one of the most profound transformations of my life.

I had never even heard of "life coaching" befo...

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Your Life is Your Canvas: Are You Choosing to Create a Masterpiece?

Do you love your life?

Are you being intentional about creating a life that lights you up, at home and at work?

Are you being an example of what it means to create an extraordinary life for your children, or are you teaching them to settle for “good enough”?

These hard questions are the very ones...

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When Love Illuminates: Lessons from the Solar Eclipse of 2024 

Have you noticed how nature always provides the best metaphors for life?

Chances are, you caught the solar eclipse yesterday, and if you didn’t, you would have at the very least heard all about it in the days and weeks leading up to it.

It was a big deal.  

Afterwards, as I reflected on the even...

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What My Brother Has Taught Me About Celebrating Life...
Today is my brother’s birthday.
 

This photo is from the spring of 1988 when he biked to my Laurentian University graduation ceremony to share in the moment even though there were only tickets for parents.
 
I have no idea whose idea it was to swap hats for the photo but I love it. I kee
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Everything Is A Choice

A full moon tonight!! 

I wrote down some stuff I am desiring to let go of once and for all and I set it on fire! 

I said a few words of gratitude and closure and I watched it reduced to ashes. 

It felt good – really good. 

I couldn’t help but feel that it really just comes down to making the cho...

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